Ymca used to be gay cruise
Back in I was blogging about my sex life, but gradually I seem to have become an agony uncle. Investment banker became blogger became agony uncle. Stranger things have happened! I'm an attractive, lean, athletic built, gay man who just turned 30 this year living in New York City. I currently work in the hospitality industry on the eastside of midtown Manhattan. I've always been facinated with straight guys especially who workout at my gym.
West Side YMCA
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Is the YMCA still a homosexual hangout?
I was new to working out, and enthusiastic about fitness, but within a couple weeks I noticed that there were men who seemed to spend all their time in the locker room. This parallel cruising universe involved a constant movement from shower to wet steam room, to dry steam room, to whirlpool, and then back to shower. Aficionados of gym cruising will agree — the more types of facilities a gym has, the better the cruising. I was a member at this location for at least a year and it provided my intro to furtive gym encounters.
This is a fair definition, but some guys would define cruising more loosely: a basic sex hunt, not something you specifically set out to do but rather something you are always doing. We do it on the subway and in the office and anywhere a handsome gentleman might lift his shirt to wipe sweat off his forehead. In our minds, we lift his shirt the rest of the way and tug on the brim of his trousers with our teeth. If you make eye contact with him and discover wordlessly and without complete certainty that you are both interested, then voila! Now all you have to do is work up the courage to talk to him, give him your number, or nod to the exit.